"Out flew the web and floated wide-
The mirror crack'd from side to side;
"The curse is come upon me," cried
The Lady of Shalott"
(Alfred, Lord Tennyson, The Lady of Shalott)
This verse sums up my day. I finally 'crack'd' the entire concept of the 'mirror' tree last night, and worked accordingly on the 'web' to further my DNA goal. I almost relaxed then, thinking that maybe I would reach my self-imposed deadline in August.
Now for the 'curse'... In this case, the curse is that not enough people in the UK have taken a DNA test yet. All it would take now is one common ancestor hint for me to finally 'know my place'.
The leafy green hint hasn't yet materialised on my DNA home page. All I can do is to try and practice patience now, and hold out for blind good luck. I wonder how the odds of the right person taking a DNA test would stack up against winning the lottery?
One thing I've come to love on my journey through newly charted chromosomes is the support and care that others on the same journey extend. We celebrate good news and fantastic outcomes for each other when it happens, and we are there when it all comes crashing down, ready to commiserate with a stranger in pain. Even if some days you feel like you'll always be the bridesmaid and never the bride, it doesn't even occur to you to resent someone else's dream coming true.